Parents Say 17-Year-Old Daughter Is Moving Across The Country To Be With Online Boyfriend She’s N…
My daughter, Becky, doesn’t see the issue of talking to older guys online. Becky was talking with guys that were 18, 19, 24, and I was not okay with that. Her social media name was something like Daddy’s Little Girl XXX. She acted like a four year old and was role playing with guys who had fetishes. Becky is addicted to online game. She doesn’t see the issue of talking to older guys online or sending and posting nude photos of herself. He doesn’t respect you.
He doesn’t have the kind of respect for you that he should have. I think that’s bull crap. As of now, Becky has not met this online boyfriend in person. And I hope she never does. It a month, Becky says she’s moving cross country to be with this guy. You think you know him–
You think you know somebody, but you really don’t know them until you’ve spent a lot of time with them. No matter what you guys say, I’m moving out. I have my bags packed. Becky’s boyfriend has zero respect for me and my wife or our rules. We are at our wit’s end. Well, Cheryl’s mom, Loretta, says it’s all her daughter’s fault for allowing her granddaughter to misbehave. If I was in Cheryl’s shoes, Becky would not be doing on all of this, and she might not have met her online boyfriend. Cheryl should’ve slapped the (bleep) out of Becky when she found Becky was posting naked photos online. Loretta’s whole thing is that we didn’t spank ’em enough or smack ’em. For misbehaving.
You didn’t spank ’em enough at all. That’s not our parenting style. And you see where it got you. I believe 99% of Becky’s problems are ’cause of my daughter. You’re not her friend, you’re her mother. You are the boss, and she’s not. I don’t think I try to be her friend. I try to talk to her and put her in timeout. I don’t believe in timeout. But even from a–
What do you believe in? A good smack. My main concern is Becky wants to move across the country and live with some guy she doesn’t know. Who knows what her boyfriend’s done? You don’t know what he has in store for you. You wanna be a whore? No. Well, that’s what you’re gonna be. On the news, you see these kinds of guys locking girls up for years. It’s disgusting. Too many perverts out there, too many nuts. You go back there, he gives you some drugs. You’re gonna go out there and sell your ass for drugs. Why would I even take drugs in the first place?
Who knows? He might accidentally give ’em to you and not knowed. She needs someone else to help her straighten up other than her mom, dad, or me. I want Dr. Phil to make Becky see the light and show her that she doesn’t know or need this guy. Cheryl wants to see the rainbow at the end of all of this, but there’s a tornado coming. Okay, so, how concerned are you? Is this just that there’s an unknown here, or do you have reason to be concerned, specific reason to be concerned? What do you know about him, if anything? Specific reasons, I mean he, in talking back in forth with her, he’s controlling. He’s insecure, he doesn’t want her to go out with friends or go on family vacation. And he gets mad at her for changing her mind. She decides to go to a school event, and he gets mad. “Well, you said you weren’t going.” But then she went, we made her go, and she had a good time. And he’s mad ’cause she lied to him. I definitely get a bad vibe from him. He’s extremely controlling and argumentative, has absolutely no respect for our rules and. Have you spoken to him? I have spoken to him. Yes, and I’ve spoken with him and texted back and forth. And I mean, he pretty much says, your rules are ridiculous, and Becky can go to sleep whenever she wants to go to sleep and–
We don’t need to follow your rules ’cause they’re just stupid. Okay, have you talked to him? I talked to him about a year and a half ago. It’s just snowballed, I’m mad as hell. I think it’s their fault for the new technology, that they let them just play.